What's your dream hair routine?

What's your dream hair routine?

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Do these sentences resonate? 👇

  • “I have no idea what products actually work for my hair.”
  • “My hair routine changes every week—and nothing sticks.”
  • “I wish I could have healthy hair without spending hours on it.”

Building a hair routine that actually works can feel like a never-ending cycle of trial and error—especially with all the TikTok trends, product overload, and advice coming from every direction. But finding what works for you is possible (and way less stressful than you think).

what - what is this?
“Your hair is your crown. Take care of it, and it will take care of you.” – Felicia Leatherwood, celebrity hairstylist

What’s your hair type—and why does it matter?

  • The Hair Typing System (1A–4C):
    • Type 1: Straight (1A: very fine/straight, 1B: straight with volume, 1C: straight/coarse)
    • Type 2: Wavy (2A: loose waves, 2B: defined waves, 2C: thick, frizzy waves)
    • Type 3: Curly (3A: loose curls, 3B: springy ringlets, 3C: tight corkscrews)
    • Type 4: Coily (4A: soft coils, 4B: zig-zag pattern, 4C: tightest coils, most shrinkage)
      Knowing your type helps you pick the right products and techniques for moisture, definition, and protection.
  • Porosity matters:
    • High porosity: Absorbs moisture quickly but loses it fast. Needs heavier creams and oils.
    • Low porosity: Repels moisture; lighter products and heat can help ingredients absorb.

What are the basics of a solid routine?

  • Cleansing: Shampoo as needed (not always daily!) to keep your scalp healthy.
  • Conditioning: Use conditioner every wash, and deep condition weekly if your hair is dry or damaged.
  • Moisturizing: Leave-in conditioners, oils, or creams can help lock in moisture.
  • Styling: Use products that match your hair goals—volume, definition, frizz control, etc.—and avoid too much heat.
  • Trimming: Regular trims (every 2–3 months) help prevent split ends and keep hair looking fresh.

What about Gen Z hair habits?

  • According to a 2024 Allure survey, over 60% of Gen Zers say TikTok is their #1 source for hair advice—but 55% also say it’s hard to know what’s legit1.
  • Gen Z is more likely than any other generation to experiment with new products, but 70% wish they had a routine that was easier to stick to and less expensive1.
  • Protective styles, natural textures, and scalp care are trending, with more people embracing their hair’s natural state.

What are the biggest mistakes people make?

  • Switching routines too often: Give products at least a few weeks to see results.
  • Using too much product: More isn’t always better—start small and add more if needed.
  • Ignoring your scalp: Healthy hair starts at the roots.
  • Skipping trims: Regular trims help prevent split ends and keep hair looking fresh.

How do you find what works for YOU?

  • Track your results: Take pics or notes on how your hair feels after each wash or style.
  • Start simple: Build a basic routine and add products one at a time.
  • Listen to your hair: If it feels dry, add moisture. If it’s greasy, try lighter products or wash more often.

Creating a hair routine isn’t about copying influencers or buying the most expensive products. It’s about tuning into your own needs, being patient, and making small tweaks until you find your groove.

you - does it apply to you?
“The best hair routine is the one you’ll actually stick to.” – Dr. Crystal Aguh, dermatologist

Take a moment to reflect on YOUR approach to hair care. Here are five questions to help YOU explore YOUR relationship with your hair:

  1. What’s the one thing you wish your hair would do more easily?
  2. How do you feel about your hair texture and how do you care for it?
  3. What’s your go-to product or step you can’t skip?
  4. When was the last time you felt really good about your hair?
  5. What would your dream hair routine look like if time and money weren’t an issue?

do - where do you go from here?
“Healthy hair is a journey, not a destination.” – Deepica Mutyala, entrepreneur

Click on the dropdowns below to see the easy action items:

Do one of these things TODAY 👇

  • Try a new wash day: Give your scalp a gentle massage when you shampoo—your roots will thank you.
  • Simplify: Pick one product to skip this week and see if your hair actually needs it.
  • Hydrate: Drink an extra glass of water and use a leave-in conditioner—hydration starts inside and out.

Say one (or all) of these affirmations out loud 👇

  1. "My hair is unique and beautiful just as it is."
  2. "I am patient with my hair and my routine."
  3. "I nourish my hair and scalp with care."
  4. "I celebrate my hair’s progress, not just perfection."
  5. "My confidence shines through every strand."

Channel that feeling 👇

  • Feeling frustrated? Take a break from styling and let your hair air dry.
  • Feeling inspired? Try a new braid, bun, or twist—just for fun!
  • Feeling overwhelmed? Set a timer and give yourself 10 minutes for hair care, then move on with your day.

Some vibes to close us out

Your hair journey is yours alone.

Trust the process, celebrate the good hair days (and the not-so-good ones), and remember: the best routine is the one that fits your life.

You’re learning, growing, and glowing—one wash day at a time.

YOU got this. 💭✨


Sources

  1. "How to Build the Perfect Hair Care Routine for Your Hair Type." Verywell Health (2025).
  2. "The Top Hair-Care Trends of 2024 Prove Healthy Hair Is Our Top Priority." Allure (2023).
  3. "Gen Z & the beauty market in the United States - statistics & facts." Statista (2024).

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Montana Houston

Written by Montana Houston

Montana Houston, founder of rYOUminate, aims to revolutionize life guidance for young adults. Offline, she's reading, playing video games, or doing aerial yoga. Currently ruminating on: finding AC. 🥵
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